This is Conny Olausson. Or rather, it was. After six years of fighting the swedish social services, police, tax office, womens shelters and prosecutors, who hid his children from him and refused him the right to even talk to them. Conny finally gave up and ended his life at 4pm , Saturday, 11 August 2007.
It is now almost four years ago the "threat" against the childrens mother took his life, but she is still living with protected personal data, still supported by the social services, tax authorities and women's shelters. Now apparently it is the childrens grandparents who have become the threat. They have, as far as I know, still not been allowed to meet and spend time with their grandchildren.
Neither was Conny's children allowed to attend their fathers funeral. The social Services did not find it necessary to pass on that information to them.
I called Conny's father one evening after having read the obituary on another swedish fathers rights website. He had just come home from the hospital.
He gladly told me his story, and he didn't mind me writing it, but he had made the descision to give up the fight for visitation and redress. He had really given it his all. He had also tried to contact virtually every newsdesk in Sweden but noone was interested in this story. Conny was a man, and abused men have not interested the Swedish media. And as soon as you even breathe the word custody fight the call will be cut short.
Connys father was getting old and weak, and he had now been ordered by his doctor he had to drop what had happened to his son and his grandchildren. His heart wouldn't take more of the abuse. He said he would do his best, but added "the children will get all the documents when they get older". "I have sorted them all and saved them for the kids."
That was the last thing he said before we said goodbye. After the call I sat stunned for a while trying to grasp how Swedish authorities can be allowed to commit these crimes to it's citizens. Slowly torturing them, to death. Under the feminist war cry "Men's violence against women", they have destroyed a lot of innocent fathers and children. You could say they reserve the right to use violence themselves with complete impunity.
Conny was a fighter. He went 182 matches in the ring. Many of them in the blue and yellow swedish national team dress in welterweight. His trophy collection is large, but in the one fight that really meant everything, he didn't stand a chanse.
After six years of fighting for his life, he finally fell and never got up again. Killed by criminals who hide behind good intentions and what they call "in the best interest of the child". Seducing people with their wise and obvious messages. "We have a responsibility to protect women and children".
For decades they have managed to sprinkle dust in our eyes and the eyes of our politicians with their false reality descriptions and their spiked statistics. I have seen some of the falsified stories they wrote to influence our politicians 2006, before the vote for the new custody law was to take place. To make sure it got the desired content, they put together the most horrible stories about psycho fathers and called them true.
"Buried alive" was just one of them". A lot of fathers, mothers and children have had to pay dearly for this. Some like Conny and his kids payed the ultimate price.
A malignant mother can easily get rid of the father
Swedens most powerful feministic lobbygroup ROKS have together with their politician friends armed women to the teeth, with an ever increasing number of appropriate laws to choose from, if they want to falsely accuse a father in a custody fight. A formidable smörgåsbord. Womens peace, assault, rape, prostitution, sexual assault, pedophilia, incest, Just take your pick! In our courtrooms there are 4 judges that decide who is most credible when word stand against word. One real one, and three politicians without any legal education at all. And when you bear in mind that all parties in Sweden are more or less feminist orientated, you can easily calculate the odds that they side with the father.
Conny was a man that used to fight fair. In his career, leading up to the national team in boxing, he had been taught that. Therefore, he became an easy target for a corrupt social services and the women's shelter. The children were so terrified of their abusive mother that they locked themselves in their room when they were told to go home from their grandfather. Neither the social services or the womens shelter cared about that.
In 2002 the mother of Conny's children took them with her and went into hiding. Telling the CPS the usual sob story and with that Conny was doomed. Of course they don't want to proove the allogations in a courtroom, and they don't have to.
Instead they have instated what they call "preliminary hearings" with only one purpose. To brand the father as dangerous so that he can't get any unsupervised visitation. This is a mere formality for in the preliminaries no witnesses are heard no evidence presented. The mother's words will suffice. This is just the first stationen on the long road to take away the rights of the children to their parent . Conny's last meeting with his children lasted for two hours in a social service apartment guarded by two "supervisors".
After those two hours Conny never sees his children ever again. Conny's custody investigation is handled by a woman from a external staffing agency called Manpower.
No evidence of abuse were ever presented. But the meer accusation is enough. The woman that was put in charge of four peoples lives and future talked to both the mother and to Conny. The mother in person, and with Conny through a questionnaire with check boxes.
He is tricked with false promises of visitation with his kids, by the social services, to go to the wrong city, while they assist the mother to yet again move and hide. Although he knew where his ex was living with the children, and never once went there uninvited. When he finally understood that they had tricked him, he got angry and said "forbidden things" inside the social services office. They immediatelycalled the police and for the first time in his life Conny was arrested. Threatening a public servant. An honest man who always stood up for the young kids all through his life. Supporting and training them in the boxing club. Conny loved children, especially his own. His love was very much answered. Kids looked up to him.
When he was released from jail, he was so broke that police had to take out their coffee box to buy him a bus ticket home. When Conny later called KRIS (a support group) to get some support and advice regarding his situation, he reached a woman who seemed interested and understanding. Conny felt relief that someone at least was willing to listen to his story. After a while he in his frustration blurted out "It feels like I could kill her." He should not have said that. This time they senta whole police task force from Gothenburg. They kicked the door in with drawn guns and forced Conny down on the floor. And suddenly, Conny had been transformed from an honest citizen and diligent athlete to a serial offender and a woman abuser.
Conny tried several times to write to his children, but because he was forced to send everything through the tax office, which is the authority in Sweden in charge of hiding women and children from dangerous fathers, he knew that none of the letters would ever reach them. Especially now when he actually had become a convicted criminal.
Never forget to take care of eachother
Finally one day Conny, after having spent six years in "fathers hell" decided to end it all. Some people, however strong, can not take this abuse forever. But first he sat down and wrote one final letter to his children.
You should know that I have really tried everything to get to see you ant to get to know where you are.
I have missed you so bad that I have become completely sick in my nerves.
I have been wondering how you are today. Sweden is a sick country in how they treat people. It has been so difficult to live without you because you were my whole life.
I Have wondered a lot how people can be so heartless to you my beloved children. I so wish that you are allright. I have been so worried about you.
You were my children. My whole life. Take care, Jessica and Martin and never forget to help each other. Never forget to take care of each other.
Police: But if he hanged himself, what's the hurry?
August 11 2007 Conny's father recieve a phone call from the guy living next to the caravan that at this time was Connys home. He said it was dark and dimmed in the caravan. That worried him because it was not like Conny not to open the door and pull up the drapes. Conny's father immediately called the police in Lidköping. The first call was made at 12:05 pm that day. Connys dad asked them to please hurry to check on his son.
At 2:15 pm no cops had arrived. Then the worried Grandpa called again and got the answer: "Yes, but if he has hanged himself, it can't be so urgent, can it?".
One hour later, the police call back to Conny's mother and father and in a dry voice informs them that their son is dead. That he had hanged himself. He had now been cut down and taken to the morgue, and if they wanted his wallet and keys they were available at the station.
The mother? Yes she is said to live in the neighborhood of Skoghall. She had given birth to two children before Connys, but she had already abandoned them. She had been witnessed several times beating up Connys children. She has a documented addiction to pills and is difficult and very unstable.
This story is true. It happens over and over again, but still noone wants to talk about it, or discuss it. In Sweden we only have problems with wifebeaters, rapists and pedophiles. If you are a man who resists giving up your kids, you will likely end up in one of these categories.
Why is this abuse and torture not illegal?
If people would see what we have seen. Experienced just one day of the pain we are forced to carry for years. They would understand and perhaps even demand change. But that cannot be allowed. Too powerful and profitable forces would be threatened. Feminism is today a global multi billion industry, and the custody fights are just a tool so they can split the parents, give the child to the least suitable, and thereby making it easier to steal the kids, and feed them into the profitable juvenile detention industry.
That is why Connys father never succeeded in getting any swedish newspaper to write his story. These stories are taboo in swedish media. They get buried. They much rather write about cases of abused and discriminated women.
But the worst kind of torture is not what is done to you. It is much worse and much more effective to hurt your kids, while you are restrained. Everyone subjected to that kind of torture will break. So why is it not even punishable by law in Sweden?
Hope you have found peace Conny. Your kids will someday find out the truth about their dad and be proud of you. You did everything you could. They will see that and feel your strength and iron will within themselves. Sometimes the poorest man leaves his children the richest inheritance.